Are you about to have a first date with someone you are interested in? This is something you need to perfect: say a line like “You seem to be a social girl who enjoys her friends' company but also enjoys her privacy every once in a while.” Or, say “You want to save some money, but you do not really hold back if you want to buy something nice for yourself on occasion.” Although these statements may seem vague to you, the girl you say it to will feel like you can really relate to her feelings.

This second step, which goes into the “meat” of the fractionation tactic, causes the woman to go through the entire spectrum of human emotion and anchors those emotions within the person who's using them, resulting in the girl associating all the emotions she just experienced with the man using the technique.

However, if you talk about her, she'll think you're the greatest conversationalist in the world. Developing your conversational skills and knowing what to say to a girl on Tinder will help you make a connection with more of your matches. A guy will be moving onto the next girl in a heartbeat if you make a terrible impression on him.

And it's a lot more fun (and profitable) when you know how to do it. A Tinder first date is intimidating and awkward enough as it is…so your matches are looking for a fun easy going guy who can take the pressure off. For example, using the word “laugh” in your profile will earn you more messages — whether you love to laugh or you're the guy who makes everyone laugh (or both).

If you sense a disinterest from her, that is the exact wrong time to tell her how you feel and show interest in her. Having a few first date questions in mind will help you find a topic and lead to a fun, effortless conversation. If you think about it, most of the worst first date experiences happen when your mind is elsewhere: You're thinking about how you struck out” with the last 3 women, and you'll be pissed if yet another woman blows you off.